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Meet Mal Weeraratne who first recognised Trauma Transference Syndrome, Mal Weeraratne has treated thousands of clients and has spent several decades learning and researching the effects that trauma takes on the body, the results of his findings culminated in his founding of Trauma Transference Syndrome.

A traumatic experience impacts on an entire person. The way we think, the way we learn, the way we remember things, the way we feel about ourselves, the way we feel about other people, and the way we make sense of the world are all profoundly altered by traumatic experiences, which is why it is so important that trauma and the resulting emotions are dealt with and that a victim of trauma is helped to process the experience. If trauma is not process the powerful images, feelings, and sensations do not just ‘go away’ instead they are deeply imprinted and are stored in the body’s cellular memory.

The following illustration is a map how emotions are stored in the body. (Bodily maps of emotions by Lauri Nummenmaa, Enrico Glerean, Riitta Hari, and Jari K. Hietanen)

The active memories of the trauma remains ‘locked’ in the system causing blockages until a ‘trigger’ occurs. When a trigger that allows the victim to access the trauma presents itself, in suffers of Trauma Transference Syndrome the real cause of the original trauma is not recognised and is instead transferred to the new stimuli or trigger, for example if a therapist treats a client who is storing trauma in his/her body and acts as the trigger for releasing this trauma the client will assign the blame for the trauma to the therapist who has helped them access the trauma.

In order to understand Trauma Transference Syndrome it is necessary to understand how trauma enters the body during a traumatic event and how it is stored within the body as well as the effects that this stored trauma has on the victim.  Also how the trauma can be accessed and transferred if not treated.

Why does Trauma Transference Syndrome Occur?

Trauma Transference Syndrome occurs when a past trauma such as sexual abuse has been engraved into the cellular memory and has not been dealt with. It is now recognised that victims of abuse such as rape and sexual abuse suffer from a form of post-traumatic stress. The signs of this trauma scarring are not generally outwardly visible, the memory has been supressed in the mind, but the powerful images, feelings, and sensations do not just “go away” once the danger of attack has passed. These memories are deeply imprinted, more strongly than normal everyday memories and often shards of the trauma occur from time to time manifesting in feelings of anger, rage, sadness, mistrust, fear, shame, loneliness, abandonment.

Mal Weeraratne will help you with whatever trauma you have faced especially if you suffer Trauma Transference Syndrome.

The Travelling Souk have some stunning homemade unusual Christmas gifts whether it’s a handbag or soap or home décor there is something for everyone that suits all budgets. The Travelling Souk has a beautiful assortment of fabulous Christmas Gifts at affordable prices. Maybe splash out and buy your lady love a unique stylish piece of jewellery and whilst on-line buy something for the kids, parents and in laws and the next thing you know your shopping is done!

Find an amazing assortment of unique Christmas gifts on The Travelling Souk one of the UK largest Christmas gift websites has never been so much fun especially from the comfort of your office or home or order online while sitting on the underground train. Now that’s what we call convenient shopping.

The Travelling Souk have a delightful range of handmade Christmas Decorations to adorn your home with beautifully this season, pop some in your shopping basket when you do your Christmas shopping.

Visit – www.thetravellingsouk.com for other exclusive gift ideas

IBS are market leaders in innovative Industrial Services equipment and solutions. They have a reputation as leaders in cutting edge technology for Industrial Blower Equipment such as Industrial Vacuum Pumps and Industrial Vacuum Services which are known for their high performance, robust equipment, cost effective and versatility. So versatile they vacuum wet and dry spillage and dust right through.

Hiring equipment from IBS is simple and affordable, they have liquid ring, rotary vane, side channel, claw and roots  Vacuum Booster pumps available to minimise our customers down time in the event of:

• Emergency breakdown
• Planned repair/maintenance
• Short-term demand
• Testing of new systems
• Accidental damage

DIY Marquees for sale give fantastic advice to ensure their customers’ requirements are taken into consideration and often on a tight budget. They will give the best possible advice ensuring your party or function is a complete success. Whether you would like a garden party, wedding, Christmas party you will be sure to get the help you require. DIY Marquees have some affordable pop up marquees for sale.

Case study: Mr Jones wants to cover as much of his garden with marquees as possible

We recently had a visit by a Mr Jones, he was planning a party and wanted to extend his house in to the garden using marquees. This is a pretty common scenario for marquee hire companies especially during the winter months.

Mr Jones came in with a diagram of his garden with the marquees he thought he need, two 4x6m marquees, one 3.6×3.6m pagoda and one walkway:

The garden is not easy as it’s a very funny shape and on the surface this looks to do the job. My concerns were:

• Weathering to the house would be difficult. The 4x6m marquee against the house should at least be a 6x4m one for ease of weathering. A pagoda is sloped on all 4 sides and so difficult to weather against a house.
• There would be many joins. This is not a problem regarding weatherproofing with our guttering kits but it can be a hindrance to party atmosphere and circulation. The risk is the end 4x6m marquee would feel cut-off and under-used (note if this layout went ahead a good suggestion would be to put the food and/or drink in this 4x6m to ensure it is used).
• Walkways are ideal for connecting marquees together but in this scenario you aren’t really gaining any useable space by having the walkway in the middle there. It’s a bit like a sideways corridor.

So having explained all of this I suggested an alternative approach, a 4x12m marquee and a 4x4m marquee on the side:

• This is much easier to weather against the house (both marquees would have their flat gables towards the house)
• There is only one join and it is much easier to weather the two marquees side by side
• You have a larger main area for the guests to circulate.

Note that in this example Mr Jones is actually ending up with slightly less of his garden covered and my alternative option is cheaper than his original suggestion. I can however guarantee that this second idea will be an improvement on the atmosphere and circulation of the party.

As mentioned in other articles I would still recommend having the food and drink out in the marquee (maybe at the far end). People (especially blokes) linger by the bar, having the food and drink outside guarantees the marquees are used fully and everyone doesn’t end up in the kitchen.

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How is this possible? Knowall IT has their own server which houses clients email, data and applications on their high availability cloud platform. This server is co-located in a 3 tier data centre outside of London.

Benefits of Cloud Computing?

There are many benefits to your organisation or company by converting to Cloud Computing. It is an affordable solution reducing costs in your organisation and delivers better customer service. Your business will run more efficiently concentrating on the core business functions.

With Platform as a Service, Software as a Service, Infrastructure as a Service Knowall IT has solutions for everyone.

The options might seem over whelming, don’t feel you are alone. Speak to Knowall IT the experts in Cloud Solutions assisting many clients. They use innovative technology thus making your life simple and your company to run more efficiently.

Tantric Journey Scared Spot massage or G Spot massage an ideal emotional detox through emotional release?

‘Female ejaculation is every woman’s birth right because all women are born with the anatomical ability to ejaculate.’ – Female Ejaculation The G Spot by Deborah Sundahl.

‘Every woman has the potential to ejaculate. Some woman and their partners know it happens, others mistake it for urination, while still others remain completely uninformed about the phenomenon.’ –  Touch Me There!: A Hands-On Guide to Your Orgasmic Hot Spots confirms by M. S. Yvonne K Fulbright.

Above text from authors confirm my Scared Spot massage or G Spot massage is ideal for emotional detox through my emotional release technique. The recent text by Fullbright also confirms the scepticism portrayed by ignorance.

‘There are important reasons why a woman doesn’t ejaculate. And these primarily stem from the lack of information’. – Female Ejaculation The G Spot by Deborah Sundahl.

My Sacred Spot massage or G Spot massage through Deep Body Work for Emotional Release given at Tantric Journey for emotional detox are wound and amplified on the teachings of Tantra and Taoism.

‘By embracing Tantra, we become more “real,” more “complete”. How? By recognizing and stimulating our inherent sensual spirituality, we discover parts of ourselves that have remained asleep or have been repressed’. – Spiritual Sex by Nik Douglas.

Yoni is Tantric name for the female reproductive system. I use the term ‘Yoni Crying’ as my Sacred Spot massage or G Spot massage gives a negative emotional release through Amrita that is required for emotional detox.

‘Yoni Massage or Sacred Yoni Healing’, ‘It literally means “Divine Passage” or “Sacred Temple” . Yoni massage is the ritual of honoring and healing this part of the body’ .’The seed of a woman’s sexuality is in her heart. By following the guidance tantra offers, you learn to connect your heart to your yoni’s pleasure. .. There is so much emotion and trauma held in the yoni… This process of healing the yoni, of releasing fears and trauma, is like pulling the weeds from a garden to allow space for beautiful flowers to grow. ..Yoni massage will often bring more sensitivity and aliveness to the female g spot, and lead to the amazing experience of female ejaculation which releases amrita, the sacred feminine waters… you learn to release old beliefs that are keeping you from your full potential as a lover..’.- Yoni: the sacred symbol of the female creative power by Rufus C. Camphausen

Therefore I would conclude that my Tantric Journey Scared Spot massage or G Spot massage is ideal for emotional detox through emotional release.

Dreamy blissful fairy tale wedding … is this something that dream are made of or can your dreams become reality? Well with Marquee Hire they will make YOUR DREAMS come true! They have assisted hundreds of people over the many years in marquee hire and function organising making sure there thoughts go from dreams to reality.

It is possible to have a fairy tale wedding in the middle of winter or a winter wonderland wedding in the middle of summer or how about a traditional wedding?  How is this possible you might be asking yourself? Well the flexibility of hiring a marquee allows you to have the freedom to have exactly what you would like.

The décor and huge selections of  winter marquee hire make this possible. Marquee Hire will transform any marquee into the dream venue. So be it traditional marquees or one of their unusual designs they have something to suite everyone and every budget.

Are you tired of going to the movies alone or daunted by the thought of going out on a date on your own when others have partners. Do you long for company on a weekend getaway or have a Christmas party to attend and don’t have a partner?

Dukes of Daisy have the perfect professional service to meet these needs, they are a reliable and safe rent a friend agency. They offer a reliable, affordable and friendly companion service. You can rent a friend easy as a few clicks of a button. They have a large selection of rent a friend to choose from be in a sporty, serious, fun loving or active person there is someone for everyone.

Browse Dukes of Daisy site and select the person you would like to be your companion, book the date and time and the person will then be yours for the occasion. No strings attached just a good fun companion is sometimes all one needs to make us feel more confident and less lonely.

Christmas Carol Service of Remembrance

This year were are holding a Christmas Carol Service of Remembrance on Sunday 14th December 2014 at 3.00pm at St Andrew’s Parish Church, Biggleswade.  The congregation will be invited to light floating candles during the service to remember people they have lost. Tags of Remembrance will also be placed on the Christmas Tree during the service, after the service the tags will be transferred to the Tree of Remembrance at Woodman and Son. After the service all are warmly invited to stay for light refreshments and a chance to share memories. We hope this service will bring comfort to everyone who attends. This invite extends to all in the community.

Lodge Brothers funeral directors Ashford and Funeral directors Woking and many other Lodge Brothers branches get behind several important campaigns where lives are changed or saved such as the Road Safety Week is the UK’s biggest road safety event, involving thousands of schools, organisations and community groups every year. Set up in 1997, the event is coordinated annually by Brake each November, and aims to encourage grassroots action on road safety and raise awareness about the part we can all play in preventing tragedies and making roads safer. Road Safety Week is taking place 17-23 November 2014, it is asking everyone to ‘look out for each other’ on roads, because being selfish can easily lead to tragedy.

Particularly calling on drivers to protect people on foot and bike by slowing down to 20 in communities, looking twice and taking it slow at junctions and bends, and giving people plenty of room. Specsavers in St Neots are holding a raffle to raise funds for this excellent charity. T L Cobbold are very proud to be support such an important project.

Lodge Brothers are passionate about making people aware in order to save lives.

Lodge Brothers all around the UK Funeral Directors Chertsey and Funeral Directors Englefield Green know what a special time it is at Christmas especially if you have lost a loved one, this can be one of the most painful occasions to celebrate without your loved one. They understand the importance of acknowledging that special person and have many different ways of including you to be able to celebrate their life.

Tree of remembrance

From the 1^st December our annual tree of remembrance will be in our reception area.  If we have cared for you in the last 4 years you will have been sent some tags. Perhaps your bereavement was more than 4 years ago, it may even be that we didn’t look after the funeral arrangements for you at your time of loss, regardless, you are very welcome to call in or ring us and we will happily supply you with a tag so that you too can write your own message to someone you have lost and remember at this time of year.